"I'm told by Academy members that David Fincher would have a better shot at Best Director... if only he wasn't considered such a jerk...." byCyber News •7:04 AM Ha ha. Oscar time again. Have you seen "The Curious Case Of Benjamin Button" yet? We have not, but will very soon. Yesterday, we saw "The Reader." I did that long post the other day -- "Kate Winslet is &…